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Host: Unaffiliated

Ages: 18+

Friday,
December 4th

6:30 - 10:30pm

$3.50/game
+Shoes
South County Kinkster Bowling

We're seeing if there is interest having some like minded folks bowl in the South County Area. You don't have to know what you're doing (good bowling), in fact, it's probably better if you don't.
Host: ALA

Ages: All ages for students, 18+ for non-WashU
(Open to Public)

Saturday,
December 5th


Noon - 4pm

Ursa's Fireside
Kink Fair

For all the ever-changing up-to-date information about the ALA's December 2009 Kink Fair please visit the Kink Fair Page!
 Host: STL3

Ages: 21+

Saturday,
December 5th

7:30 -11pm

Hooters
STL3 MUNCH

The STL3 Munch is a great chance to meet other kinky people in a kink-free context where you can get to know each other and have a chance to meet the management of STL3.

Hooters is located at:
11835 Lackland Rd
Saint Louis, MO 63146
Host: FLOG

Ages: 21+

Saturday,
December 5th

8pm - 1am

E-mail for location
FLOG!

FLOG (Fetish Lifestyle Open Group) is a monthly social event for Kinksters who are 21+. FLOG has awesome vendors, a small bar, plenty of space to socialize and a designated Dungeon area and Dungeon Monitors for people to make use of if they so choose.

The location of FLOG is not published, if you have never attended before and would like to please do one of the following: Contact us at Info@WashUAltLife.org or contact FLOG directly at FLOG_StLouis@yahoo.com
Host: ALA

Ages: All

Sunday,
December 6th

7 - 9pm

DUC 273
Final ALA Meeting of the semester!

Details to be announced
Host: WashU

Monday,
December 7th
Last Day of Classes at WashU

Get ready for finals!
Host: Open

Monday,
December 7th

Ages: All

Women's Building

Room 300

8pm
Open Meeting

"Even if you've never been to Open before, anyone and everyone is encouraged to come and engage in dialogue about coming out in a safe space."
Host: Requiem

Ages: 18+

Monday,
December 7th

10pm - 3am

Dante's
3221 Olive St
(314) 652-2369
Requiem!

The first Monday of each month Dante's hosts Requiem which is its official Goth/Industrial Night which means it is easy for kinksters to blend in- no one will be bothered by leather or latex, cuffs or collars. Each non-first Monday is Sindustry Night which is pretty much the same thing but not as well attended.

Cover is $3
Please do not drink and drive!
Host: ND

Ages: 21+

Saturday,
December 19th

7:30 - 10pm

Malones
11660 Administration Dr
St. Louis, MO 63146

(314) 432-2611
Non-Denominational Munch

A munch is a non-kinky get together of kinky people! Come enjoy some food and drinks while you get to know other members of the St. Louis BDSM scene.

"Everyone 21 yrs. old or over who has an interest is welcome. You can be a member of any group or of no group. Collars are ok, but remember, this is a vanilla establishment and we don't want to draw undue or negative attention.

We have never had complaints, and I expect that to continue.

This is an opportunity to get together and talk among folks with an interest in BDSM in a social, non-threatening atmosphere. Hope you can make it.

SilvrLion/Marty"
Host: Conspiracy

Ages: ?? (probably 21+)

$10 at the door

Saturday,
December 19th

10pm - 3am

Atomic Cowboy

Fetish attire encouraged
Conspiracy

Enticing performances by Ami Amore of Exotic Rhythm Belly Dance.

Fetish Room.

2 Floors of music with special guest DJ SpensnaZ from Chicago.

Live art and painted models.

Leather by Sestra Koza, Jewelry by GladRags.

Come out and enjoy one of the most unique events in St. Louis!

Sponsored by SINNERS Magazine, Cheap TRX, and The Bleeding Deacon
Host: TNG

Ages: 18-35

Sunday,
December 20th

5 - 9pm

Sandrina's
5098 Arsenal
TNG Munch

TNG hosts munches for those between the ages of 18 and 35.

A munch is a non-kinky get together of kinky people.

Please dress appropriately based on the location.

"We've decided to enhance the evening with a gift exchange! Staying within a $5 maximum, bring your favorite "pervertable" items (ordinary stuff that we can use in kinky ways).
Share your perverse creativity with your friends!

And since so many people love to spend this time of year baking cookies and other tasty treats, don't forget to bring some to share with the gang!"


Host: LGBT

Ages: All

Thursday,
December 31st (?)

5pm

625 N Euclid
Suite 420
Generations

This is an activity/discussion group hosted by the LGBT Center on the last Thursday of every month so that LGBT youth and adults can come together and have fun.

For more information please contact Blue at info@findmycenter.com
SGAC

January
Wednesday,
27th
Activities Fair

Come visit our stand at the Activities Fair in the Athletic Complex and find out why "the only thing vanilla about our group is the free ice cream!"
SHAC

February
8th - 14th
SEX WEEK

Details Pending!



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Past Events

Below are a few examples of events that the ALA has done in addition to weekly meetings sense 2003.

*March 2006: Brought Jack Rinella to campus for "A History of Kinky Sex"

*4/22/06: Brought Jack McGeorge to speak about UN Weapons Inspections in the Middle East and to discuss the difficult topic of being "out".

*9/24/06: Screened Eddie Izzard's "Dress To Kill" at Ursa's

*10/12/06: SafeZones Training

Sex Week 2007: The events put on during SHAC's "Sex Week" by the ALA and other non-SHAC groups were dubbed "Beyond Sex" and focused on the important topics we felt SHAC was missing. The Beyond Sex website can still be found here: http://altlife.wustl.edu/beyondsex.

*2/12/07: The ALA teamed up with Pride and brought David Jay and Shelly Protte from AVEN (Asexuaility Visibility and Education Network),

*2/13/07: screened "Vice & Consent" followed by a discussion.

*2/15/07: hosted a "You, Sex and the Law" Panel discussion.

*2/16/07: put on a Vendor Fair & Fetish Fashion Show called Kinky Kouture.

*2/17/07: brought Jack Rinella to present on "Creating Spaces for Good Sex"

*2/17/07: hosted "Blow Jobs: A Discussion" lead by Jack Rinella

*Sex Week 2009: Thanks to great communication efforts by SHAC Sex Week 2009 was a well integrated, informative and exciting week for WashU!

*2/10/09: Academic Symposium on Porn

*2/10/09: "My Life As A Feminist Porn Activist" by Annie Sprinkle

*2/11/09: Sidewalk Sex Clinic

*2/11/09: Screening of "Anne Sprinkle's Amazing World of Orgasm"

*2/11/09: Fun With Ecstasy Breathing Workshop

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